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I
used to have premature ejaculation for many years. I couldn't work out
why. I would be with a woman and then not long after we started to have
intercourse, maybe after just two minutes, I would ejaculate.
It was totally frustrating. I mean, I had barely worked up a sweat!
I started to use over the counter anesthetics to give me some relief.
First thing I tried was benzocaine condoms. They added a few extra minutes but nothing much.
Then I took some of these condoms and scraped the benzocaine out of a
pack of 12. I put all this benzocaine into a small lip balm jar and
used that instead. A bigger dose meant more time. So far so good. But I
wanted longer than just five minutes.
So the next thing I tried was a lidocaine spray.
This was a tiny pump action spray that looks like a breath freshener.
You are supposed to use only 3 to 8 sprays but I must have used
something like 20, on my penis head and shaft. It was "great", I could
go for ages like this. But the problem was that I could not really feel
anything. Somehow I was still able to ejaculate even though I couldn't
really feel anything!
Then I started to throw caution to the wind. I decided to stop using anesthetics because they were good, but only temporary, measures.
I was somehow able to get better and better at extending myself.
Instead of worrying about when I was going to ejaculate, I started to
take more of an interest in my partner and our combined experience. If
I had an ejaculation, whenever it would be, it really didn't matter. It
was no longer the be all and end all.
Amazingly, the less you worry about it, the less likely it is to happen. I actually found myself on many occasions unable to ejaculate! These
days I can turn it on and off pretty much like a switch. I can keep
going without worry and then when I start to get tired and just want to
finish up then I can summon the "energy" to get quickly aroused to the
point of ejaculation.
Discover my exact techniques for how I overcame premature ejaculation here: Ejaculation
Supremacy.
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