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Premature ejaculation with new partner - it's actually not such an uncommon condition.
Anxiety
The ultimate root cause of all premature ejaculation is anxiety. Now, there might be additional complications or unique factors involved but all cases of PE involve anxiety in the bedroom.
Classic Case
That is why having premature ejaculation with a new partner is not uncommon at all.
When you have sex with a new partner, it may have been a while since
you had sex with anyone other than your ex. Even if this is not the
case, sex with a new partner is often a time of apprehension. You ask
yourself questions such as:
- will I be good enough in bed?
- what will she expect in bed?
- should I act like a stud?
- should I be honest?
- will it be good?
All of these questions inside your head (and more) lead to anxiety while you are having sex. All you need is a single seed of doubt of anxiety and it will spiral in a feedback loop to become the certainty of premature ejaculation.
How To Cure Yourself
As you will no doubt now be aware, the answer to getting rid of your PE problem is to destroy your anxiety. There are a few ways to do this.
There are some short term techniques
that you can use to stave off ejaculation. Although these are only
temporary, they get you used to the feeling of going for longer and to
expect this in future.
There are also some longer term technniques
that you can use that allow you to "self-train" yourself. Slowly but
surely you find yourself not just lasting longer but actually enjoying
the greater sexual act much more. As
you rediscover what intercourse really is and start to enjoy yourself
much more, you almost forget about your ejaculation - zero anxiety
about it means that you actually develop real control over exactly WHEN you wish to ejaculate.
Discover the secret techniques to becoming a master marathon lover in bed who can control exactly when he wants to ejaculate here: Ejaculation
Supremacy.
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